I have the same things. But I have a very different perspective. I am a prodigious savant. I have super high sensitivity, all the neurodivergences and no disability. I take in so many inputs and learn immersivly. I don't really need school because I realize it theory cognitively very easily.

But my ability easily learn comes at the cost of not being able to maintain the grueling shedule of average.

Do you sort of just know things easily? This is recognized as gifted knowing. I am changing the science around this because it's all wrong.
What we have is very, very common among the profoundly gifted.

My chronic illness started when I had my largest cognitive growth spurt around age 9/10. In 5th grade I started with Bronchial pneumonia every winter. I would be out of school for weeks.

After my second kid I started working for myself because I was so exhausted. Then I pulled my kids out of their school schedules (they are just like me) and we figured out our natural ones.

Suddenly things got so much better. I still have pain but I can manage it with by eating healthy, exercising and physical therapy. My life has never been better.