Let me really take some stress off you then. Our kids will be fine even if we pull them out of school and do absolutely no teaching whatsoever. Why?
We are actually in the middle of a cognitive revolution and massive paradigm shift from valuing cognitive intelligence to valuing somatic and creative intelligence.
AI will replace the all the focus on memorizing and testing our cognitive.
My kids are mediocre students and yet my son still got into Berkeley and my daughter still skipped high school and went straight to college.
You can actually do this with mediocre grades. If you prove they are creative and they can do the bs early entrance testing.
We are good deductive thinkers, so testing is not a hurdle.
You should give up on playing the game the system forces us to play. It's not good for our kids. It is doing more damage than good.
Try to figure out how to game the system so your kid is saved from its relentless conditioning of our children into a slave mind set. The rich dad poor dad thing is much worse than we realize. It is the schools who instill poverty functioning into our children.